{"id":1211,"date":"2011-07-23T13:51:52","date_gmt":"2011-07-23T20:51:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/?p=1211"},"modified":"2011-07-23T13:51:52","modified_gmt":"2011-07-23T20:51:52","slug":"taking-criticism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/2011\/07\/23\/taking-criticism\/","title":{"rendered":"Taking Criticism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=1212\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1212\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/talking-about-criticism.jpg\" alt=\"\" title=\"talking-about-criticism\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1212\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/talking-about-criticism.jpg 640w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/talking-about-criticism-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/talking-about-criticism-600x450.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>At Comic-Con I catch up with a lot of old buddies, particularly one of the Edge who&#8217;s solidered through many drafts of my early stories.<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s got a script he&#8217;s working on, and is making a lot of progress. In contrast we know a friend who&#8217;s written a dozen scripts and is making no progress at all. Why?<\/p>\n<p>One of the conclusions we came to is that it&#8217;s important to accept criticism of your work. Timely feedback is critical to improved performance &#8211; but you must respond to it.<\/p>\n<p>I think writers should put down all their dumb ideas and then convince everyone that they&#8217;re brilliant. Your quirky ideas are your contribution &#8211; I mean, who&#8217;d think a story about a naked blue guy and a homeless vigilante investigating a murder would make one of the greatest comics of all time, but hey, that&#8217;s Watchmen.<\/p>\n<p>But you&#8217;ve got to sell those ideas. &#8220;Ideas are a dime a dozen, but a great implementation is priceless.&#8221; So if you show someone your story with a naked blue superhero and they don&#8217;t buy it &#8211; <em>you have to fix your story<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t mean you take out the naked blue guy, even if your critics want you to. It&#8217;s your story, and just because it doesn&#8217;t work for someone they may not know the right way to fix it. It&#8217;s up to you, the author, to figure out how to solve the problem.<\/p>\n<p>Readers give bad advice about how to fix stories because people are notoriously bad at introspection. If someone gets a funny bad feeling about the manuscript, they may latch on to the most salient unusual feature &#8211; not realizing it&#8217;s the bad dialogue or structure which gives them indigestion.<\/p>\n<p>But authors are also notoriously bad at accepting criticism because they take the criticism as a personal attack. But if you get criticism on your story, you&#8217;ve done a great thing: you&#8217;ve produced a story that can be evaluated.<\/p>\n<p>Authors are also bad at accepting criticism because they have fragile little egos. But you can&#8217;t afford to explain everything away. If people are complaining about your story, they did so for a reason. You need to figure out what that is &#8211; and it&#8217;s your problem, not theirs.<\/p>\n<p>So, if you get criticism on your story you don&#8217;t think is fair, you get one &#8212; ONE &#8212; chance to explain yourself. If your critic doesn&#8217;t immediately get it, then &#8212; even if you don&#8217;t agree &#8212; say, &#8220;Yes, thank you, I&#8217;ll take it under advisement.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then put it in your trip computer and remember it for later. If others see the same thing, you have a problem. If you personally start to feel even slightly the same way, you have a BIG problem.<\/p>\n<p>But your biggest problem is not taking criticism at all. Me and my friend have encountered a fair number of leaders whose egos are so fragile they&#8217;ve insulated themselves from all criticism. <\/p>\n<p>You can still achieve some degree of success in an echo chamber if you&#8217;re willing to critique yourself and you have high artistic standars. But usually it just makes for unnecessarily flawed stories, movies and products &#8211; and an unnecessary slide towards the dustbin when your ideas stop working.<\/p>\n<p>So if you&#8217;re lucky enough to have someone who reads your pre-baked work and gives you feedback, listen carefully, explain at most once, and take the criticism gracefully. Your art will be the better for it in the long run.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=1213\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1213\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/take-it-graciously.jpg\" alt=\"taking criticism graciously\" title=\"take-it-graciously\" width=\"600\" height=\"450\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-1213\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/take-it-graciously.jpg 600w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/07\/take-it-graciously-300x225.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>-the Centaur<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At Comic-Con I catch up with a lot of old buddies, particularly one of the Edge who&#8217;s solidered through many drafts of my early stories. He&#8217;s got a script he&#8217;s&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4,63],"class_list":["post-1211","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-dragon-writers","tag-san-diego-comic-con","ratio-2-1","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1211","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1211"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1211\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1221,"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1211\/revisions\/1221"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1211"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1211"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1211"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}