{"id":6604,"date":"2023-04-08T00:55:13","date_gmt":"2023-04-08T07:55:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/?p=6604"},"modified":"2023-04-08T00:55:15","modified_gmt":"2023-04-08T07:55:15","slug":"sixty-two-minus-thirty-four-some-sacrifices-must-be-made","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/2023\/04\/08\/sixty-two-minus-thirty-four-some-sacrifices-must-be-made\/","title":{"rendered":"[sixty-two] minus thirty-four: some sacrifices must be made"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Screenshot-2023-04-08-at-12.35.11-AM-600x310.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6605\" width=\"716\" height=\"370\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Screenshot-2023-04-08-at-12.35.11-AM-600x310.png 600w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Screenshot-2023-04-08-at-12.35.11-AM-300x155.png 300w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Screenshot-2023-04-08-at-12.35.11-AM-768x396.png 768w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Screenshot-2023-04-08-at-12.35.11-AM-1536x793.png 1536w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Screenshot-2023-04-08-at-12.35.11-AM-2048x1057.png 2048w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Screenshot-2023-04-08-at-12.35.11-AM-640x330.png 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 716px) 100vw, 716px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">that&#8217;s a hummus appetizer<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Lent teaches us to learn to sacrifice. We&#8217;re asked to give something up. We&#8217;re asked to abstain from meat (well, land animals) on Fridays. And we&#8217;re asked to fast on Good Friday &#8230; which is today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m not too happy that Clockwork Alchemy is Easter Weekend, but I understand that it&#8217;s not everyone&#8217;s holiday (and that this may have been the best weekend we could get). But I get it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That doesn&#8217;t absolve me of my responsibilities, though. I don&#8217;t fully fast as a matter of policy &#8211; I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s healthy to go starving your body &#8211; but I eat light on fasting days, just enough that my body gets food.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20220308_200831-600x450.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6606\" width=\"714\" height=\"536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20220308_200831-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20220308_200831-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20220308_200831-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20220308_200831-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20220308_200831-2048x1536.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/20220308_200831-640x480.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 714px) 100vw, 714px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">i can make a mean cauliflower steak if i have to<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The choice tonight was particularly hard, though: the restaurant had cauliflower steak, one of my favorite meals. It would have been so easy to order that as being somehow &#8220;healthier&#8221; than other options.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it wouldn&#8217;t have been fasting. And, as a favorite, it would have been a gluttonous choice, so, reluctantly, I got the rather smaller hummus plate and had that as my meal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Christians do these things to remind us of Jesus&#8217;s suffering, but the Church doesn&#8217;t want to remind us of Jesus for Jesus&#8217;s sake &#8211; he doesn&#8217;t need it. No, they want to remind us of Jesus&#8217;s sacrifice for our own good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Learning to sacrifice during Lent is like cross-training your moral muscles: it helps you exercise your decision making on small things, so that muscle can be used properly when we face larger things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tonight, for example, I was able to call upon that muscle to help me make the right choices. After dining with my friends, I reluctantly bid them adieu, and went to go deal with my missing costume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;d forgotten part of it, recall, and had to drive 45 minute to get it. But when I did so &#8230; remember what I said about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/2023\/04\/04\/fifty-nine-minus-thirty-four-being-where-you-need-to-be\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"6577\">knowing you&#8217;re doing the right thing when you end up being where you need to be?<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/the-box-600x450.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6608\" width=\"713\" height=\"535\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/the-box-600x450.png 600w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/the-box-300x225.png 300w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/the-box-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/the-box-640x480.png 640w, https:\/\/dresan.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/the-box.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 713px) 100vw, 713px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">the trellis, not yet unloaded<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A package had arrived &#8211; a trellis, purchased to help save the branches of a beloved tree. A package far too large for our house sitter, who has hurt her back. A package that almost certainly would have been stolen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, doing what I needed to do that evening may have helped me be where I needed to be to save the package from the neighborhood&#8217;s package thieves, for starters, but there was much more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These are little things, but every time I do the right thing and am rewarded for it, it seems to become just a little bit easier to do the right thing again the next time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>-the Centaur<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pictured: tonight&#8217;s hummus, my cauliflower steak, and the late-arriving trellis package.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lent teaches us to learn to sacrifice. We&#8217;re asked to give something up. We&#8217;re asked to abstain from meat (well, land animals) on Fridays. 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